
Stephanie Nelson 89 and Doug 89 Dickman
Doug 89 and Stephanie Nelson 89 Dickman met as first-year students in the һԹ Chamber Singers, a premier ensemble that has earned regional, national, and international reputations for its performances.
We would meet at choir at 5 oclock, and a group of us would go to dinner afterward and hang out. Thats how we met, says Stephanie, who was a physics major at һԹ.
The Chamber Singers were a big part of the Dickmans lives. Between their sophomore and junior year, they went on tour and performed in Italy. There is something almost indescribable about making beautiful music with a tight-knit group of people in some amazing spaces to appreciative audiences, says Doug, who was a business/management information systems major.
There have been many Chamber Singer couples through the generations, Stephanie says, many of whom return to һԹ to attend reunion celebrations. Some of our best friends today are couples who met through the Chamber Singers, says Doug. One Chamber Singers couple is godparents to their son, Connor.
Their affinity for һԹ has grown over the decades and they have given back with their time, expertise, and contributions to provide opportunities for students.
The Dickmans became supporters of the college through charitable giving early on. After graduating from һԹ and earning masters degrees at other institutions, Doug and Stephanie got married.
We started giving back in small amounts, says Stephanie, but һԹ has been the mainstay of our charitable giving over the last 30 years.
Among the many ways they give back to һԹ, the Dickmans have provided support for the Chamber Singers especially for European tours. We found that to be an amazing experience, says Stephanie. They have also supported the physics department, which, Stephanie says, prepared her very well for grad school.
Since 2011, Doug has been an active alumni association board member. He is currently vice president of the һԹ Alumni Association and was a former member of the һԹ Alumni Association Board as treasurer and nominations committee member.
Recently, the Dickmans made a significant gift to support һԹ. Their donation has no specific restriction; they want һԹ to use it where it is needed most.
Needs fluctuate and that gives the school the flexibility to put the money where they need it today, says Doug. Compared to other private colleges and universities, the Dickmans say they give to һԹ because their need is greater, given reductions in state funding and a smaller endowment for scholarships, program, and faculty support.
Right now, һԹ needs the support of alumni more than ever, says Doug. As students, we had formative experiences that depended on funding from the state, which doesnt have the money to support the colleges like they used to. Its important for students today and into the future to be able to have those experiences that we were fortunate enough to have.
Giving back has long been part of the fabric of the Dickman family. Even in the wake of tragedy, the Dickmans found a way to help others, too. In 2019, they lost their 16-year old daughter, Sarah, to suicide. In memory of Sarah, Doug and Stephaniesson, Connor, wanted to bike the Erie Canal from Buffalo to Albany to for the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention. Doug joined Connor, and together, they raised more than $11,000.
Our kids have always seen us give back, says Stephanie. For example, at Christmas, we would give donations to organizations or volunteer, and we would let them get involved, so it was in Connors nature to want to honor his sister like that.
Looking back at their һԹ experience, the Dickmans value a liberal arts education. It makes people more well-roundedbetter humans, better leaders, and more aware of their surroundings, says Doug. Supporting a really good liberal arts college like һԹ is important in todays world.
They fondly remember their time on campus in the 80s. Aunt Cookies was one of their favorite places, as well as The Donut Shop on the corner of Main and Center Streets. We had less stuffdefinitely fewer electronics, says Stephanie. Most students had some kind of musical system like a cassette player or stereo. It was fun, and I loved it.
The Dickmans are members of һԹs 1871 Leadership Society, which recognizes donors who give $1,000 or more each year. Doug has worked in the information systems field for more than 25 years and is retired from Exelis (formerly Eastman Kodak) after 20 years of service followed by two years as a small business owner. Stephanie works for L3Harris Technologies as VP of Strategy and New Business Operations, Space and Airborne Systems. Doug also volunteers at the Rochester Museum and Science Center, Foodlink, Lollypop Farm, and Meals on Wheels.